I often refer to the The 5 Love Languages because I believe it is one of the best marriage resources! When we first started dating Ryan and I took the quiz together and found out how we each felt loved. Knowing Ryan’s Love Language from the beginning has helped me to understand how to show him love and his need for encouragement. He knowing mine has enabled him to know how to approach situations to best suite my love style.
Finding out your man’s Love Language will only take a few minutes, but it will make a huge impact on the way you approach your marriage.
3 ways to find out your husband’s Love Language:
- Ask your lover to take the quiz online. It pops up one question at a time with multiple choice answers. At the end it will give them their results.
- Take the quiz manually out of the book, The 5 Love Languages.
- Ask the Mr. to make a list of all the things you do that make him feel loved. Then, break the list up to categorize each one into one of the 5 Love Languages. (Some of the things he lists could go under more than one category.) Most likely the Love Language that has the most listed is his primary Love Language!
Knowing your guys Love Language can change the way you speak to him, what kinds of gifts you purchase, how you spend time together and so much more. It honestly can morph the way your whole marriage looks! (And for a bonus take the quiz yourself so you can let you hubby know your primary Love Language.)
What do you THINK your husband’s Love Language is?
Until next time- truly love,