Have you ever thought about how you want to give your husband physical touch without it leading to sex, or wondered why some wives can make daily physical touch a priority when it isn’t natural for them to even think about while others are struggling to touch their husband’s?
Many wives have shared with me that they are frustrated, angry and even resentful that they feel like their needs are not being met, but they are expected to meet their husband’s needs of physical touch. Physical touch may be something that they don’t naturally think about or often times they explain that life has them exhausted and overstimulated. The last thing that they want to do is be touched. And when they do work up the energy to give some loving touches they feel their husband pushes for more, just wanting sex.
On the flip side of that what they –and may you too- are longing to have their own needs met. They want to know how to provide daily touches when it’s the last thing on their mind. And when they do give those touches they don’t want it always ending with sex. But the deepest desire of their heart is that they could have a marriage full of true connection and intimacy. Can you relate to this?
Believe me, I’ve been there too.
What seemed like what was shortly after my wedding was over I started feeling like something just wasn’t right. My husband would go around randomly grabbing me and when I would show him affection with physical touch he would often push things towards sex. I struggled with this cycle. Understanding my husband’s Love Language of Physical Touch was not something that came natural to me. Something else that was a struggle for me was that his sex drive was higher than mine. There were many hours that I spent researching the Love Languages along with differences in sex drive. I learned a lot about how the two were connected and how they were completely separate. Thankfully, I have been able to implement my new understandings and techniques I have learned to create a marriage that includes touching, but that is also intimate in other ways.
And that’s how Getting Physical: The Truth About Physical Touch, Sex & Intimacy was born!
Within Getting Physical: The Truth About Physical Touch, Sex & Intimacy I share how you can create a marriage with deeper intimacy that doesn’t depend on physical touch alone. You’ll learn not only to touch your man without leading to sex, but how to remember to touch him when it isn’t even natural to think about and balance your needs with his needs.
It is possible to have a marriage full of intimacy that goes well beyond just physical touch, and in Getting Physical: The Truth About Physical Touch, Sex & Intimacy I will show you how.
The course offers personal stories within four videos and practical action assignments that will empower, enable and inspire you to: discover the difference between the Love Language of Physical Touch and sex, confidently show your husband you care daily with touches even when it isn’t natural for you, overcome common struggles like past hurts, exhaustion, and overstimulation and—most importantly—help you identify your own needs and share them with your husband.
Here is what the video course includes:
- 4 Live Video Courses: You’ll receive 4 video sessions that will guide you step-by-step on how to go from struggling with physical touch to confidently touching your man.
- Facebook Community: You’ll be invited to a private Facebook group available only to Getting Physical participants, where you can connect with other like-minded women.
- Weekly Activities: You’ll get weekly action assignments that support you in practicing the techniques you learn to ensure lasting results.
- Extra Bonuses: You’ll receive 4 bonuses from other marriage experts that are packed full of great things! The bonuses include: 25 Ways To Flirt With Your Husband E-book, 5 Ways To Feel Confident With Your Touches PDF, Couples Massage Course- The Basics and Ultimate Checklist To Help You Spend More Quality Time Together.
Enrollment for Getting Physical: The Truth About Physical Touch, Sex & Intimacy is extremely limited, and will only be open through this Friday, Oct 20th. If you are ready to finally to have a marriage full of intimacy, sign up now to secure your spot!
Until Next Time- Truly Love,
Cassie
Cassie, I’m here with you from “From Messes To Messages”.
This is such an important post! I’m dying, and both ex and even gentle physical touch are really out of the question. It hurts too much.
I never liked sex; the ‘need’ felt like a weakness, because I came from a kind of bad beginning and raised myself in a pseudo-Spartan mindset. Feel aroused? A cold shower and two hundred pushups will solve that little problem.
Yeah, I was (and am) TERRIFIC to be married to. Call me Cyborg.
The thing is, from the tail end of life I see something, and that is that people need to try, need to compromise, need to forgive. Physical touch is very, very important, and so is sex, but the most important thing of all is being able to communicate, and adapt.
Nothing’s perfect. But darn it, guys, HOLD EACH OTHER!
We can’t do that any more.
https://blessed-are-the-pure-of-heart.blogspot.com/2017/10/your-dying-spouse-385-caregiver-grow.html