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Today’s post is my monthly marriage contribution over at New Nostalgia! I have to say this is a topic that I see come up often. I really think it is an important topic to discuss. Number 3 is the biggest thing you can do to get your man to speak your Love Language. It is not easy, but it is the best thing to do! Here is a snippet for you, but don’t forget to click through and read number 3!
Last week, I wrote about making sure your husband knew your Love Language. Today, we are going to go into what if he knows it but you don’t feel like he speaks it. When talking with those ladies, which I mentioned in the last post, some said they just felt like their man didn’t make the effort to speak their Love Language even though he knew what it was. That of course got me thinking. I started wondering, “But what can we really do about it?”Ok, so my husband knows my Love Language. We discussed it clearly, but I just don’t feel like he speaks my Love Language. Here are a few things to think about and consider:1) We often speak the Love Language that we enjoy receiving. It is natural to us. Your man may have to learn how to speak your Love Language. It is foreign to him. It is like learning any other new skill. It feels awkward at first, it take practice and time to get the hang of it. (This may also be true for you in learning your mates language if it is foreign to you.) Therefore, we must be patient.
Love this reminder and lesson. SO true. Patients & time.
Although it is the truth Chloe it is so hard for us to do! We often want to see instant gratification and reward. Or we don’t think our husband deserves us doing nice things for him if we don’t feel our needs being met. But I am a firm believer in that fact that we only can control our behaviors! Which means in my mind this is the only option!