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If your husband’s Love Language is Acts of Service you may feel like or think you need to clean the house all the time and keep it sparkling clean. However, Acts of Service can be way more than just house work! Today, we are going to go over four different ways you can ensure you are loving your man and filling his love tank by completing the Acts of Services that are meaningful to him.
- Make a List- Start listening to the requests that he is asking. Write these requests down (if you are like me- so you can remember them.) Then, make a point to do one once a week or every other day.
- Create Coupons- Make some cute coupons that say, “Today I will show you my love for you by…” Fill in the blank with things you know he would appreciate. You can even use the things from the list above!
- He Chooses- Ask mister to write a list of ten things he would like you to do over the next month. Next, get him to write a 1-10 next to them in the order of importance. Now, get to work marking these things off.
- Daily Acts- Question your man. Find out what daily service you could do for him that would make him feel loved. Once you know the answer start working it into your schedule. Maybe just a few times a week and then gradually to daily.
Choose one or all of these ways to start showing your love Acts of Service. Speaking his Love Language will make him feel appreciated and loved. In no time his love tank will be full and he will be a very happy and pleased man!
What is an Acts of Service you do that is not house work?
Until Next Time,
Cassie
Love the idea of writing a list! Definitely doing this!!
I am starting to get “pregnancy brain” so this helps me. I do have to admit I never really thought that was a real thing, but it is!!
I’m totally doing #3 but maybe just 5 acts to start :). I let him have quiet time when he’s working in the morning without bugging him about anything. Also, I go fishing with him on the weekends which is his favorite activity and not necessarily mine.
Pam- Starting anywhere is good! Go for it. When 5 are done add more. 🙂